r/AITAH 4h ago

Advice Needed AITAH for telling my husband if he fights for custody of his kids I will divorce him?

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I 27F am vehemently childfree, I am sterilized and have no intention of having or caring for any child. I married my husband, 33M, last year and did not know he had any children until 5 days ago. I travel for work, work for myself, and have amazing pay for very few active working hours (I am a honeymoon planner, owning my own business); we have a joint account for bills and our own separate accounts for savings and fun money.

My husband sat me down 5 days ago and told me he hadn't been completely honest with me. And revealed he has 2 children 10M and 7F. He pays regular child support, however, it dips into his fun money and he wants to be able to have fun like I am, so he said he would fight for 50/50 custody.

I was furious he had lied to me and was even more angry when he told me he wanted 50/50. He works 12-16 hour shifts as a nurse and that would mean I would have to take care of the children when I'm not working or are working from home. I told him if he fights for custody, I will leave him. We have a prenup, so a divorce will be rather simple; I get 100% of my business, all of my savings and fun money, and the house, as I inherited it from my grandmother.

He called me an asshole and told me I should step up so that he can have more money in his savings and for fun. And because the kids won't be much hassle due to their ages. So AITA for telling him I will divorce him if he goes through with filing for custody?


r/worldnews 8h ago

Israel/Palestine Hamas announces death of youngest hostage Kfir Bibas

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r/meirl 4h ago

meirl

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r/technology 7h ago

Business Amazon exec says it’s time for workers to ‘disagree and commit’ to office return — “I don’t have data to back it up, but I know it’s better.”

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r/pics 4h ago

In the USA they have single person benches.

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r/nba 7h ago

[TMZ Sports] The inquiry into whether Josh Giddey had an inappropriate relationship with a minor has hit a roadblock - TMZ Sports has learned the alleged teen and her family are refusing to cooperate with officials.

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The inquiry into whether Oklahoma City Thunder guard Josh Giddey had an inappropriate relationship with a minor has hit a roadblock.

TMZ Sports has learned the alleged teen and her family are refusing to cooperate with officials.

Law enforcement sources tell us police would obviously like to speak with the purported female and those close to her to gather more information regarding the social media claims that made rounds over the weekend ... but as of right now, no one is talking.

https://www.tmz.com/2023/11/29/josh-giddey-police-inquiry-minor-family-wont-cooperate-alleged-underage-relationship/?adid=social-tws


r/AskReddit 7h ago

What is the polite way to say “mind your own business/fuck off” when someone asks you why you’re still unmarried/no children?

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r/politics 9h ago

Trump’s aberrant behavior is getting worse. Why are Americans ignoring his decline?

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r/facepalm 6h ago

🇲​🇮​🇸​🇨​ "Lets spent 10 grand on jewerly."

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r/FluentInFinance 19h ago

Discussion $1.9 Trillion!? Why!?

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r/BrandNewSentence 4h ago

“puddle ass ocean”

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r/funnyvideos 6h ago

Prank/challenge Dad trolls his daughter at a restaurant because she has a crush on the waiter

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r/tumblr 2h ago

Important announcement: Hyenas can be floofy

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r/MurderedByWords 6h ago

Water is not wet

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r/politics 6h ago

Joe Biden Retakes Lead from Donald Trump in Latest National 2024 Poll

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r/rareinsults 6h ago

Saw this gem today

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r/cats 7h ago

Cat Picture I’ll draw your cat c:

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So many people are doing it and it looks fun, help me practice my drawing please 💕


r/clevercomebacks 15h ago

What a boomer mindset.

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r/gaming 4h ago

What’s a modern standard in gaming that needs to die?

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What’s modern gaming convention that should no longer be practiced?


r/unpopularopinion 15h ago

Catch and release fishing is stupid and cruel.

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As someone who legitimately fishes for sustenance (Alaskan trying to not be broke) it always rubs me the wrong way how catch and release (99% fly fishermen) folks have an air of superiority. As fishermen, we're all jamming a hook through an animal's head to drag them to shore. I'm at least doing it to feed myself and my family, and do it as quick as humanly possible. I often see fly fish bros prolonging the fight for soooo long, for no good reason - just to let the poor thing swim away. They spent 5 thousand dollars to come fish here and by God they're gonna get the most drama for the buck! I feel bad enough hurting these animals for food, I don't understand how anyone gets any sort of enjoyment out of torturing them purely for sport. People who fish healthy stocks of fish for food are far more ethical than catch and release fishermen.


r/BlackPeopleTwitter 10h ago

Time to look inward

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r/mildlyinfuriating 4h ago

I received this message from an Airbnb host two weeks after booking a place for the holidays.

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r/news 7h ago

U.S. GDP Grew at a 5.2% Rate in the Third Quarter, Even Stronger than First Indicated

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r/todayilearned 5h ago

TIL the Bureau of Land Management uses trigger activated sodium cyanide traps to kill coyotes on public lands which inadvertently kill thousands of pets and endangered species every year.

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r/awfuleverything 17h ago

A diagram of how John Jones was stuck for 27 hours in a cave before passing away

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In 2009, John Jones and his family went to the Nutty Putty cave during thanksgiving. Jones accidentally became trapped in a horrifically small squeeze. The opening measured 10 inches across and 18 inches high, around the size of a clothes dryer. After many rescue efforts from both his family and a huge rescue team, John passed away after 27 hours of excruciating pain, discomfort, and panic.